I have a friend who has an amazing Resting Bitch Face. When I first saw her, I thought she was…well…a bitch. A mutual friend said, “Alisa? A bitch? She’s the nicest person you’ll ever meet. She’s a sweetheart.”
Well, I had no intention of finding out if she was a sweetheart until we happened to be working at the same school. Hesitantly, I introduced myself to her and that Resting Bitch Face broke out into the warmest smile you could imagine. Instantly that first impression melted away and I discovered that Alisa was indeed one of the sweetest people I ever met. It’s funny how my initial impression of her was so wrong. Ever since that encounter, I have always kept my mind open to giving people a chance. This way of thinking has helped me to unearth genuine moments with people I would’ve initially written off. I have a friendly relationship with a local homeless man named David because I gave him a chance and didn’t write him off because of his status and lack of hygiene.
Currently as our government has been nothing but fodder for comedians, sketch comedy shows, and drive by media hounds, I keep hearing people say to give a certain world leader….
…oh, my stomach!
…a chance. Honestly, I don’t know what that means. People can say and do whatever they want in resistance to this person’s ascension to the throne of the First World, but in all rights, he has the job and he has the chance to prove he is not a person to have an unfortunate Resting Bitch Face. No one is stopping him from doing anything legal within his rights as a leader of a soverign nation. This person could honestly prove to everyone that our first impression was wrong and he is definitely a horse worth backing by doing something. Now people may say he is doing something, but the constant tweets, rants, and blustering doesn’t reveal a warm smiling spirit behind the bitchy facade. His thinly veiled attempt to be inclusive with a prolonged side-eye at everyone who dares to not LOVE him shows the first impression might be…right.